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_aDifficult conversations _ehow to discuss what matters most _fDouglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen _gRoger Fisher (forword) |
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_aNew York _cPenguin Books _d1999 |
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_a250p. _d20cm |
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| 330 | _aINTRODUCTION : A difficult conversation is anything your find it hard to talk about. The dilemma: avoid or confront, it seems there is no good path. This book can help... Difficult conversations are a normal part of life. THE PROBLEM - 1. Sort out three conversations. SHIFT TO A LEARNING STANCE - The "What happened?" Conversation . 2. Stop arguing about who's rigth: explore each other's stories. 3. Don't assume they meant it: disentangle intent from impact. 4. Abandon blame: map the contribuition system. THE FEELINGS CONVERSATION - 5. Have your feelings or they will have you). THE IDENTITY CONVERSATION - 6. Ground your identity: ask yourself what's at stake. CREATE A LEARNING CONVERSATION - 7. What's your purpose? When to raise it and when to let go. 8. Getting started:begin from the third story. 9. Learning: listen from inside out. 10. expression. speak for yourself with clarity and power. 11. Problem-Solving: take the lead. 12. Putting it all together. | ||
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_aSTONE _bDougas _924250 |
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